One of the most important tools explored during the Love Therapy seminar last Thursday was The Scale. Far more than a tool for measuring weight, the scale carries deep biblical significance—representing balance, justice, evaluation, prudence, precision, comparison, honesty and integrity.
Bishop James Marques and his wife Helena opened the evening with a powerful scripture:
“Dishonest scales are an abomination to the Lord, but a just weight is His delight.” (Proverbs 11:1).
In the past, scales worked using two plates—one held the item being weighed, and the other held set weights. A fair trade meant both sides balanced evenly. But dishonest sellers would tamper with the weights, cheating buyers out of what they were owed. This kind of deceit, the Bible warns, is an abomination to God.
But what does a scale have to do with love and relationships?
Just as the Bible condemns dishonest scales, it equally calls us to live truthfully in every area of life—including our relationships. Jesus taught:
“Let your ‘Yes’ be ‘Yes,’ and your ‘No,’ ‘No’; anything beyond this comes from the evil one.” (Matthew 5:37).
Whether it’s being transparent about finances, your past, or your intentions, honesty is the foundation of any healthy relationship. Yet, many overlook early signs of deception in the hope that things will improve. Sadly, a relationship built on lies is unlikely to withstand life’s challenges.
“You have been weighed in the balances and found wanting.” (Daniel 5:27).
This isn’t about judging others; the scale is not for pointing fingers but it’s for self-examination. As husbands, wives, partners, or singles, we must ask ourselves: Am I lacking in my role? Many people are married but have never truly embraced the responsibilities of being a husband or wife in practice. The issue might not be your partner—it could be you.
If we were to place God’s Word on one side of the scale, how would our lives measure on the other? The Bible is the standard that helps us examine ourselves.
The scale becomes a tool for personal reflection and growth at any stage:
If you find yourself lacking, take action. Don’t ignore the imbalance. Fix it while you can.
During Holy Week, we reflect on Jesus’ example of love and humility when He washed His disciples’ feet. He showed what it means to serve. In relationships, we should do the same—serving each other, putting love into action, and walking in the footsteps of Christ.
Join us for a special Love Therapy seminar this Thursday at 8pm, where we will take part in this powerful act of humility and the next tool will be revealed.
Event: The Love Therapy Seminar with the Washing of the Feet
Day and time: Thursday 17th April at 8pm
Location: The Cathedral of Miracles, Rainbow Theatre, 232 Seven Sisters Road, Finsbury Park, London, N4 3NX (outside London via conference)
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