For everything in this world, there is a tool. Just as a carpenter needs the right tools to build a sturdy house, we need the right tools to build and maintain a strong, healthy love life. Over the next few weeks, we will explore how to use different tools for specific problems in our relationships.
Amos 7:7 says, “… Behold, the Lord stood on a wall made with a plumb line, with a plumb line in His hand.”
What exactly is a plumb line? In construction, a plumb line is a weight suspended from a string used to ensure that a wall is straight. If the wall is not aligned correctly, adjustments must be made to ensure stability. Just as a builder relies on a plumb line, we must use God’s principles as our plumb line to align our love lives correctly.
A slight inclination in a wall can eventually lead to collapse, just as small compromises, unchecked attitudes, and destructive inclinations can ruin relationships. We must be mindful of the influences shaping our love lives and use God’s wisdom to ensure we stay on the right path.
In our relationships, we encounter different types of people, and their impact can shape our experiences for better or worse. Let’s examine three key figures from the Bible and their relevance to love and relationships.
Judas represents those who betray and backstab, often while pretending to be close. In love, these are the people who say the right things but do not have our best interests at heart. They seek to manipulate and deceive, often leaving their partners wounded. To avoid falling prey to these individuals, we must seek discernment and be wary of empty words that do not align with our actions.
Peter was passionate but often spoke or acted without thinking. Some people in relationships, like Peter, may genuinely care but can hurt their partners with harsh words or impulsive decisions. Hiding behind sincerity does not excuse careless words or actions. A partner who speaks without considering the impact can cause unnecessary pain and misunderstanding.
Jesus represents the ideal example of love and relationships. He changed lives through His words and actions, demonstrating patience, wisdom, and kindness. Jesus understood the weight of His Words and chose them carefully, rebuking and correcting with love.
Many relationships fail due to destructive communication. To build strong relationships, we must eliminate explosive tempers, rudeness, and harsh words. If we do not have anything positive or constructive to say, it is often better to remain silent.
As we reflect on these three groups, we should ask God to help remove any destructive inclinations within us that may harm our relationships. By using the right tools, we can build relationships that stand the test of time. Let’s commit to aligning our love lives with God’s plumb line and experience the joy of a strong and healthy, relationship.
Interested in learning about the next tool? Join us for the Love Therapy seminar this Thursday at 8pm.
Event: The Tools of Intelligent Love
Day and time: Thursday 20th February at 8pm
Location: The Cathedral of Miracles, Rainbow Theatre, 232 Seven Sisters Road, Finsbury Park, London, N4 3NX (outside London via conference)
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