Having a family is a universal desire for many, as it represents—a source of love, support, and belonging. It’s natural to dream of living alongside people who genuinely care for you and want the best for your future. Unfortunately, some may abandon this dream due to past painful experiences, believing they are better off alone.
Deep down, no one truly wants to be alone. Often, the decision to isolate stems from fear—fear that being with someone might bring more hurt than happiness. Traumatic experiences shape this mindset, but when in a healthy state of mind, people long for companionship and family.
Just as a house doesn’t build itself, a family or marriage requires effort. “For every house is built by someone, but He who built all things is God” (Hebrews 3:4). A successful family life doesn’t magically appear—it must be built, brick by brick, with care, commitment, and faith.
This effort is not ours alone. As we are reminded, “Unless the Lord builds the house, they labour in vain who build it” (Psalm 127:1). With God as the foundation, even the most challenging relationships can grow into something strong and enduring.
Many singles often think, “I’ll focus on my career, earn money, and then find someone to marry.” While a career and financial stability are important, this mindset overlooks the importance of personal preparation for marriage and family life.
Think of it this way: you study and train to improve your job prospects because you understand that preparation is necessary for success. The same principle applies to love and relationships. Without emotional, mental, and spiritual readiness, even the best opportunities for love may falter.
If you’re single and dream of a happy family, start preparing today. Even if you aren’t currently seeking a relationship, equipping yourself emotionally and spiritually will ensure you’re ready when the right person comes into your life. Take the time to learn, grow, and align yourself with God’s plan.
If your marriage isn’t as fulfilling as you hoped, it’s not too late to rebuild. A strong family starts with someone willing to take responsibility, and if you’re reading this, perhaps God is calling you to be that person.
With faith, effort, and love, you can rebuild the “house” of your family into something beautiful.
No matter your relationship status—single, dating, divorced, or married—join us for the first Love Therapy seminar of the year. Discover how to build or rebuild your family with God’s guidance and begin the year on a strong foundation.
Event: Love Therapy Seminars
Day and time: Every Thursday at 8pm
Location: Cathedral of Miracles – Rainbow Theatre, 232 Seven Sisters Road, N4 3NX (Outside London branches via livestream)
