Romantic relationships are often fraught with challenges, especially when people fail to recognise early warning signs or don’t know how to navigate the initial stages of dating. Many relationships crumble because individuals enter into them for the wrong reasons—trying to fill emotional voids caused by unresolved problems in other areas of life. Without addressing those underlying issues, people often make poor choices and may even marry without truly knowing themselves or their partner.
It’s a common misconception that love is simply about saying, “I love you.” In reality, true love is far deeper and more complex than what many perceive. False love, often fuelled by superficial gestures and empty promises, can easily deceive anyone looking for fulfilment in all the wrong places.
Take the story of Megan Clarke from the Isle of Wight, featured in the first episode of Love Cheats, a Channel Four documentary. It’s a prime example of how easily false love can disguise itself as the real deal. Megan was swept off her feet by a man who presented himself as “Lord Bertie Underwood,” a charming, seemingly wealthy suitor. He showered her with lavish gifts and romantic getaways, eventually proposing on Christmas Day. However, Megan’s dream of a fairytale romance quickly shattered. She discovered Bertie wasn’t who he claimed to be. After finding a wallet with multiple IDs under different names, she realised her fiancé had taken out numerous business loans in her name. To make matters worse, even the engagement ring turned out to be fake.
Megan’s story highlights the emotional and financial costs of false love. But what about the cost of true love? Is real love any less demanding?
True love, while infinitely rewarding, is far from free. It requires dedication, selflessness, and unwavering commitment. Many people are drawn to what appears easy or convenient, often mistaking it for love. But true love demands much more—it requires patience, sacrifice, and a deep sense of responsibility toward the other person.
So, what are some examples of true love:
Many are unprepared for the price of true love and often settle for imitations —mistaking superficial connections for genuine love. Believing they’ve found something real; they instead end up in a cycle of suffering and disappointment.
To experience true love, you must be willing to put in consistent effort every day. It requires patience, understanding that not everything will always be easy. Caring for your partner’s well-being is crucial, and it’s important to accept that mistakes are inevitable. However, true love means being willing to forgive and make sacrifices by placing your partner’s needs before your own. True love is a continuous commitment that doesn’t fade or diminish over time.
If you want to learn more about cultivating true love, join us at the Love Therapy seminars every Thursday at 8pm. These sessions focus on building healthy, lasting relationships by helping individuals understand what love truly requires.|
On Thursday, 24th October, we will have a special Q&A session where we will address questions about dating, marriage, and relationships. Together, we’ll explore how to navigate the complexities of love and avoid the pitfalls of false love.
Our goal is to guide you toward success in this important area of life. Don’t miss out!
Event: Love Therapy Seminars
Day and time: Every Thursday at 8pm
Location: Cathedral of Miracles – Rainbow Theatre, 232 Seven Sisters Road, N4 3NX (Outside London branches via livestream)
Sources:
https://www.countypress.co.uk/news/24659476.tv-show-love-cheats-channel-4-features-isle-wight-woman/
https://www.tvguide.co.uk/schedule/f2b7b37c-4ec6-5db8-9e03-90de377a66cf/love-cheats
