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Student – I’ve been living with my boyfriend for a year and he still hasn’t divorced, which causes a lot of fights between us. Last month, I found messages from him to other women on my cell phone. He says he didn’t cheat on me. However, I found out that one of them was his lover. I asked him to stop the conversations and delete the contacts, but he refused. He changed the password, said he didn’t have to show me anything and blocked me on WhatsApp. What do I do?
Cristiane – Student, if you evaluate the question you asked us, probably your “pencil will drop”. You will see that what you are doing is stupid. If your boyfriend isn’t divorced, he’s still married. But worst of all, he is married and has other mistresses besides you. You’re playing the wife, the faithful woman who takes care of her husband’s things and waits for him to come home, but in reality, you’re being silly. Sorry for the sincerity, but he is using you and has no commitment to you. He doesn’t have the character to be in any relationship even with his wife. He doesn’t have the profile to be in a marriage and to have a family, because he is with you and with other women .
Renato – There are men who seem to like to get involved. It is similar to the case of a wife who came to us and complained that her husband paid four pensions. These child support he had to pay his children could have come before he married her or during their marriage, which is even worse. And even knowing this reality, she got involved with him. This is what happens to many women. They don’t think about what they are doing and get involved with men who are confused, indecisive and with a personal and love life full of problems and issues to be resolved.
Cristiane – They are financially independent women, but emotionally slaves.
Renato – And you must be one of those women, Aluna. You’re living in a mess and you need to realize that you got into a cold one, in a leaky canoe. You’re fighting because he blocked you on his cell phone, but that’s the least of your problems. You have to get out of this relationship. You need to understand that he is a complicated person, a person who is with his ex-wife, with other women and with you.
If you don’t believe him, if you suspect his character, you shouldn’t even have moved in with him and slept with him. Being the girlfriend of a man who is not yet divorced is wrong; living with him and thinking he should be faithful to you and respect you is even more wrong. Do yourself a huge favor : get out of that relationship. If you’re at his house, get your things and go back where you came from. If he was the one who went to your house, pack his things and tell him to go wherever he wants. Stay calm. He’ll find somewhere to stay. You can be sure.
Then take care of yourself, your heart and your mind because you are bad. You have accepted from him a handout of attention and affection, if you receive any, and you don’t see the value it has. To learn more, join the Therapy of Love . Every Thursday at the Rainbow Theater .
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