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“I don’t think it’s natural to be a monogamous person.”
The opinion is from Scarlett Johansson, one of the most admired actresses in Hollywood today, known for roles such as Black Widow, from the “Avengers” franchise, and Cristina, from “Vicky Cristina Barcelona”.
Scarlett, 32, is the mother of a 2 and a half year old son and has just divorced French journalist Romain Dauriac. This is the second divorce for the actress, who was previously married to actor Ryan Reynolds.
In an interview with Playboy magazine in the United States, published last February, she stated:
“I think the idea of marriage is very romantic. It’s a beautiful idea, and the practice of it can be a very beautiful thing. I don’t think it’s natural to be a monogamous person. Maybe I’m ‘pinched’ by this, but I think it’s a lot of work. It’s a lot of work. And the fact that this is so much work for so many people, for everyone, proves that it doesn’t come naturally.”
The actress reveals that she respects a lot those who assume this commitment, which she herself has previously assumed, but believes that it is against human instinct to maintain an exclusive relationship with someone.
“It’s a beautiful responsibility, but it’s a responsibility,” she says.
Commitment
Certainly, marriage is a responsibility. However, the Bible disagrees regarding the impossibility of being monogamous. In fact, the Lord Jesus himself said: “ You have heard that it was said to them of old, You shall not commit adultery. But I say to you, that whoever looks at a woman to lust after her has already committed adultery with her in his heart.” Matthew 5.27,28
God would not give man a commitment that he could not fulfill. On the contrary, when He created the human being, He aimed exactly at maintaining this commitment and, in this way, man strengthening woman and vice versa.
“It is quite clear from the story of how it all began that God created man and woman to serve one another . The man was called husband, which means ‘caregiver’”, says writer Renato Cardoso. “The woman, in turn, was called by God her husband’s ‘helper’.”
For him, there is no way to go wrong in the interpretation. “God’s idea for marriage was for the man to serve the woman and vice versa. A healthy competition of who would do the most good for the other. That’s real love.”
Doing well, in this case, means respecting, caring, being affectionate, but not just that. It also means giving yourself completely to that commitment. True love drives dedication, and for a marriage to succeed, you have to understand this.
Don’t give room for doubt
“Many have entered into marriage thinking about making use of the other person, not serving them”, explains Renato. With this view, they feel harmed by not being able to meet the carnal desires that arise and, in this way, they only feed more desires, weakening love. In fact, the couple needs to be sure of the choice they made and not allow room for doubt. Maintaining fidelity is not a “punishment for being married”, but an option to share life with someone in a special relationship , instead of giving in to false, empty and fleeting joys.
When any trace of doubt appears about maintaining fidelity, remember that “love is born and survives through nourishment”, as Renato teaches. Nurture it and let promiscuity die.
To understand more about the importance of fidelity in a relationship, participate in the Therapy of Love , which takes place every Thursday at the Help Center.
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